An hour spent laughing with friends feels like mere minutes, but two minutes waiting for a painful procedure feels like an eternity. But time shapes far more than our daily schedules. It dictates our memories, our emotions, and our future.
In episode 309 of the Brain Software podcast, Mike Mandel and Chris Thompson reveal that time is incredibly elastic. By utilizing self-hypnosis and NLP timelines, you can literally bend time to your will: compressing painful moments, expanding joyful ones, and even rewriting the emotional weight of your past. Read on to discover how to put time back on your side.
What You'll Learn
- Memory is Malleable: Memory is not a perfect recording; it is continually reconstructed and altered every time it is recalled, which serves as the foundation for hypnotic memory change.
- Compression vs. Dilation: Anxiety, waiting, and pain stretch our perception of time (dilation), while flow states, enjoyment, and deep hypnosis compress it.
- Updating Emotional Coding: Phobias and unhealed traumas are essentially past emotional learnings that mistakenly pretend they are still happening in the present moment, but they can be rewritten.
- Chronos vs. Kairos: Rather than merely accumulating measured clock time (Chronos), we should use techniques like "Four Tuple Encoding" to intentionally create and expand meaningful, peak experiences (Kairos).

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Episode Summary
In episode 309 of the Brain Software podcast, Mike Mandel and Chris Thompson explore the intersection between hypnosis and our perception of time. They explain that time is not just a rigid, chronological measurement, but rather an elastic experience that changes based on our emotions, attention, and state of mind. From the sensation of years speeding up as we age to the feeling of time standing still during moments of anxiety, they break down why our psychological experience of time rarely matches the clock.
The discussion dives deep into how everyday people can use self-hypnosis to intentionally influence these perceptions. Mike and Chris detail the concepts of time compression (making long, painful, or boring experiences feel significantly shorter) and time dilation, which can be used to expand our most enjoyable, peak moments. They also discuss profound therapeutic applications, explaining how phobias and traumas are essentially past events pretending to still be happening, and how hypnosis allows clients to safely revisit and rewrite the emotional coding of those memories.
Finally, the episode introduces the Greek concepts of Chronos (measured clock time) and Kairos (meaningful, peak experiences), urging listeners to intentionally cultivate more Kairos moments in their lives. Through practical techniques like "Four Tuple Encoding" and future-self visualization, Mike and Chris provide actionable tools for strengthening positive memories and building a more resourceful, empowering future. It is a powerful reminder that while our time is finite, we have the ultimate control over how we experience it.
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